Groom’s Guide: Black Tie Invited - Formal Dress At Your Wedding

Groom’s Guide: Black Tie Invited
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Back in the old days, when a host put on a black tie for an event, he expected that his guests would also show up in tuxedos. These days, that’s no longer the prevailing etiquette. But why shouldn’t it be?

There’s no reason you have to be the best-dressed man at the affair. You’ve already got the best woman at the dance. And despite their grousing, most men don’t mind getting the tuxedo out of the guest-room closet and throwing it on for a really classy party. Asking your guest to join you in wearing formal attire will help you make your ceremony and reception a truly festive event.

By simply printing “Black Tie Invited” on your reception cards, you’ll be requesting that the men attending your wedding wear tuxedos and that the women wear something equally fabulous- anything from a floor-length gown to a dressy cocktail suite would e appropriate. Most of all, you’ll help your guests fell like they’re important players in the celebration.

Not only will the day itself be more exciting, but the photos of all your family and friends dressed their best will make beautiful mementos to treasure forever.

Some of your guests may already own their tuxedos. Those that don’t can be directed to the formal wear shop where you’ve registered your wedding party to ensure that they get special attention. A Black Tie Invited wedding isn’t for everyone, however. If many of your guests don’t own tuxedos, or will find it a financial burden to rent one, don’t make them uncomfortable by asking them to wear a tuxedo to your affair. They’ll look fine in a suit and tie.

Tips:
If you’ll be attending a black-tie affair while on your honeymoon (most cruises have one), ask about a “Cruise Package,” which usually includes and extra jacket and shirt, and extends the rental period from three days to a little over a weeks.

Prom Hair Styles

The perfect hairstyle completes your perfect look for prom. Look at our website, or through magazines to find styles that would work with your hair and your dress. Practice your hairstyle several times before the special event to see how long it will take and to ensure you have all the right supplies and equipment to make it work. Make sure you feel comfortable and beautiful in your selected hairstyle. If you are having it done for you, be sure to take along the photo so the stylist knows what your vision is of your total look. On your special night, you’ll look terrific, so don’t forget to smile pretty for all those photos!

Dressing Your Maids

The first step to choosing a bridesmaid gown is to determine the formality, style and fabric of the wedding gown so that the maids gowns do not overpower the bride. Choose the color first to narrow choices. You might want to begin choosing a gown style with the larger maids in mind. In recent years, prices have declined making the average maid's dress only $140. With careful selection, your bridesmaids will be happy with the final results and spend the wedding day celebrating with the bride and her groom.

How to Shop for Your Dress

Many dresses sell out during prom season so for best selection – shop early! Try on different styles to discover your favorite look. Or if you are ordering online, take accurate measurements to get the best fit as formal dresses usually run small. Alterations are important for a perfect fit so don’t be discouraged if your dress doesn’t fit you perfectly but purchase your dress as early as possible to allow time for alterations and fittings. Buy your jewelry, shoes and other accessories at the same time to make things easier. After you are all done with shopping you can relax and dream of your big night! Have a great time!